2. Find Quiet Time For Yourself
It can be important for you to have some good alone time during the holidays. During periods of stress, we use time alone to relax and recharge. By finding time for yourself, you will feel re-energized, refreshed and ready to spend extended time with the extended family. By skipping much-needed alone time, you are setting yourself up for increased stress and a high probability that you will snap at some point.
What can you do to be alone? Tell everyone you need to do some last-minute shopping and then use the time to do whatever you like to do when you are alone: Go for a walk. Go for a drive. Read a book at a coffee shop or library. Exercise at the gym. Usually, family members don’t balk at the “last-minute shopping” excuse, because it means you are going to buy them presents.
Tomorrow’s tip: Don’t Overeat
Thanks for reading– Max Wachtel, Ph.D. (www.CherryCreekPsychology.com)